I often hear people complain that when they meet someone online and ask for a
transgender date, they say yes, but the logistics are almost impossible to coordinate. Or the person doesn't give an explicit "yes", but doesn't say "no" either, just completely ignores the question. This will result in mixed messages, confusion, and possibly a potential connection failure. If you want to
trans date, show initiative and help plan things, while either saying "yes" explicitly or being honest about your needs. For example, want to schedule a phone call first or spend more time texting.