You are using a generic message or sending the same message to multiple users. If the person you're talking to thinks you're simply copying and pasting information, you're less likely to get a response. Instead, use a unique theme to get her attention, which shows that you've actually read his/her profile. Also, be aware that friends may compare
ts dating information online, and may even consider
transgender dating the same person without first realizing it, so you're likely to get caught sending generic messages in bulk. Do your best to easily start talking about a wide variety of topics, starting with what you're connecting to in your profile, rather than spamming the same messages.
