If you really invested in a transgender dating app because you wanted to meet your future wife, what would you think? A trans dating expert says it's time for a change. Don't believe us? 'ask your friend,' she said. "Have they noticed that some sites are more focused on making friends, while others seem to have more people looking for real relationships?" Sites where people pay to become members often have more people looking for relationships, while free ts dating apps like Transdr are more suitable for casual flirting and dating.